My Father-like responsibilities

Hey, so I had a talk last night, face to face with my little guy. He's 12 years old. I've been waiting for this day since the moment that he was born. I just wanted to be perfectly honest with him and I finally got to tell him the truth about myself not being his biological father.  

It was such a beautiful conversation, we both smiled and laughed. I felt like one of those step father's straight out of a Walt Disney film, lol. I was so proud of myself, and of him, as well.  

Initially, I had sent a text message over Facebook to his mother and I said that I had felt that it was best if myself, her, her eldest sister, and her son had met. 

Ultimately, my ex-girlfriends eldest sister was the doctor who had did the DNA blood paternity test on myself to determine if I was the biological father. She was also the doctor who did the ultrasound test, the ovulation test and also the cotton swab test for more DNA testing results, during my ex-girlfriends pregnancy. 

This is why I had insisted that my ex-girlfriends eldest sister had been physically present during this meeting, between myself, my ex-girlfriend, and her child. 

I had than over heard that my ex-girlfriends son had than called my nephew later that day and he had explained to my nephew what exactly had I discussed with his mother over Facebook. Obviously, my ex-girlfriends' son and my nephew are friends but ultimately, I had wanted to discuss the matter of myself not being my ex-girlfriends' childs' biological father in proper fashion.  

I felt that my ex-girlfriend was way out of line for doing that to her child, and I expected more from her. I understood that my ex-girlfriend was married and has four other children as well with her husband so ultimately, I had not expected for her to do something as immature as she had done.  

Obviously, my ex-girlfriend had not responded to my messages over Facebook that I had initially sent over to her concerning the gathering between us that I had initially wanted to have between myself, her eldest sister and her child. Ultimately, I had not been suprised. 

Later that day, I had been suprised by my ex-girlfriends' child, as he and my nephew had been hanging out together and the both of them had decided to pay myself a visit to hang out with myself and play some video games. I than had politely asked my ex-girlfriends child if I could have a private conversation with him. 

So I had respectfully had asked my ex-girlfriends child what exactly had his mother had discussed with himself and as he began to laugh, I than realized that he had known something in regards to what I had previously discussed with his mother over Facebook. 

My ex-girlfriends child had than told myself that his mother had told him that I wasn't his father, but the way he had explained himself, sounded as if he wasn't too sure if his mother had been telling him the truth about myself not being his biological father. 

I had than asked my ex-girlfriends child to not burden himself with what he had initially heard from his mother. Obviously, I felt as if his mother was out of line and initially, I had always been stern on how I wanted to go about telling my ex-girlfriends child that I was not his biological father.  

So I sat back and gathered myself, and I had than asked my ex-girlfriends child a question. I had than asked my girlfriend's child, "What if you found out that I wasn't your biological father? How would you feel? Would you feel angry or sad?" My ex-girlfriends child than replies to myself, "I don't know. I guess I know how to take it." My ex-girlfriends' child smiled while he was speaking, I immediately fell in love with his inner strength, charisma and congratulated him on his maturity. 

Than I replied to my ex-girlfriends' child that his response was very good, and I had than told him the truth, that I was not his biological father. I explained to him what had happened, I explained to him that I had known the entire time that I was not his biological father and I also explained to him on how I initially had known the entire time that I was not his biological father. 

I than explained to my ex-girlfriends' child that it was his aunt who had been the doctor who had done the blood test, the cotton swab testing and the DNA paternity testing, to determine if I was his biological father. I also had explained to my ex-girlfriends child that it was his aunt who had conducted his mother's pregnancy ovulation testing and ultrasound, as well.  

Later, I had than also explained to my ex-girlfriends child that his aunt, who was the initial doctor who had been conducting the blood test and DNA paternity testing to determine if I was his biological father, had than called myself into the room at the hospital to read to myself the test results.  

Finally, I explained to my ex-girlfriends child that his aunt who was the doctor who had been conducting these tests had than read the test results to myself and that she had than told and shown myself the DNA blood test results that proved I was not my ex-girlfriends childs biological father. Meaning, the test results had shown and also read that I was not my ex-girlfriends childs' biological father. He humbly smiled, as he than understood, I had to move on with my life.

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